So some time back, circa 2013 I met this cool dude. Zvikanzi let me take you out for lunch so I get to know you. Ini okay. The excitement ka yekuti someone is actually interested in #thismvana.
We meet and the conversation is going really well. I open up kuti am a single mum. Then dude goes so ahhhhhhhh sex is nothing new to you so what do you say we finish off here and we head over to my place?… let me just say that was the first and last time I lost my appetite over lunch.
Being a single mum is no reason for one to tolerate being told such. You’ll hear things like ‘Ah saka ucharambirei iwe uri mvana‘. Girl, if you’re not feeling it you’re not feeling it. You don’t have to kiss all the frogs in the lake because you’re a single mother. Value yourself. You aren’t less of a woman.
The same people ivava who work on your psyche playing the mvana card are the very same people who’ll go around saying single mothers are easy, etc.